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Article: you were a friend of his and he would tell you how unpaphy he was and that he wanted a divorce, you should never have opened up your home to him and begin a sexually relationship! A friend is there to lean on and to talk to not cause more problems in a marriage you let it go too far with him. It sounds like you are trying to make yourself believe and others believe you didn’t do anything wrong. But you did, you slept with a married man, knowing he was married there is no justification for that – happy or not happy – still married and living with his family. You state you are a compassionate person, but no woman with a heart would ever put another woman thru this. Especially if they had their heart broken. From what I see it looks like you have had a couple of marriages and must have been the aggressor on those break ups, because like I said no woman who had it done to her would do it to another woman unless they are evil. And it seems like all Patti ever wanted was an apology and admit you wrong instead of putting the blame on him. It was 80 – 20. With the 80% on your wrong doing if you never opened up your home and let him in I am sure you wouldn’t be having this problem. You should have had him stay at a hotel when he job hunting, you made it easy for him to have the affair. We also know how men are where you should have been a better person and not let it go that far. If he had divorced her a different story.PattiKudas to you that you were a strong enough woman to accept his apology and continue your life with your husband. I didn’t have that strength. Lisa sounds like she is not woman enough to admit she did wrong and apologize to you!! So don’t wait for it, move on with your husband and family and be happy. Don’t let people like her pull you down to her level. God Bless you and your familyTerri